“Ballroom gives people a home -- with love, family and support at the forefront."
In the dazzling world of Ballroom — where voguing, category walks, and grand prizes are more than performances but acts of resistance and reclamation — Milwaukee’s scene is steadily making its mark.
And one of its fiercest champions is Vada Mizrahi, Godmother of the Milwaukee Chapter of the House of Mizrahi.
Poised, passionate, and unapologetically devoted to her community, Vada is part of a new generation of leaders working to uplift, empower, and expand Ballroom culture in the Midwest. And while Milwaukee may be considered an underdog city in the national Ballroom conversation, its impact is undeniable.
“We may be underdogs in this game,” Vada says with a knowing grin. “But baby, you won’t forget us once we shake shit up!”
A chosen family like no other
For Black and Brown LGBTQ individuals, Ballroom culture has always been more than a place to dance — it’s been a sanctuary. In Milwaukee, where many queer people of color still battle systemic barriers, Ballroom continues that legacy of belonging.
“It gives people a home,” Vada explains. “A sense of community, with love, support, and family at the forefront.”
For those cast aside by blood relatives or who’ve experienced homelessness and rejection, Houses become chosen families.
Within these families, members uplift one another, provide mentorship, and celebrate the authenticity that the outside world too often refuses to honor.
Ballroom, Vada says, also challenges you. Every trophy, every “Grand Prize” called out in your name, pushes members to be bolder, stronger, and more unapologetic.
“It pushes you to go harder every time — as if you have a point to prove. And most times, you do.”
Educating and empowering through QPOC Month
Vada believes QPOC Month is a prime opportunity to not just celebrate but also educate and mobilize lasting change. Beyond balls and performances, she envisions workshops, history lessons, and intimate conversations about the origins and evolution of Ballroom culture.
“Host panels. Have open forums. Do a ‘Paris is Burning’ movie night,” Vada suggests.
She also dreams of a small documentary showcasing the behind-the-scenes world of Milwaukee’s Ballroom — from house meetings to ball prep and the electrifying, nerve-wracking moments before someone hits the floor.
“Let people see what Ballroom looks like in Milwaukee. Show the love, the intensity, the artistry, the family behind the trophies.”
The future is fierce
What’s next? Vada sees big things ahead for her city’s scene.
“I see more houses being created. More balls being hosted. More people educated about what Ballroom really is — beyond what they see on TV.”
She envisions Milwaukee becoming known across the national Ballroom network, not just to its Midwestern neighbors.
With unity, investment, and visibility, the city’s underdog status won’t last long.
A message to the world
If there’s one thing Vada wants to make crystal clear, it’s this:
“We may be underdogs in this game, but one thing you should know is — you won’t ever see us coming, but baby, you won’t forget us once we shake shit up!”
Milwaukee’s Ballroom community is here, it's powerful, and it's rewriting what it means to thrive on your own terms. The city’s queens, godmothers, and legends-in-the-making aren’t waiting for a spotlight — they’re creating their own.
Want a piece of the action? Pay attention. Milwaukee’s Ballroom isn’t coming to play.
Note: this story will also appear in the July/August Pride in Color issue of Our Lives Magazine.
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